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Books I recommend, listed by title. Use the topic buttons to narrow the list. Reading can be a gentle companion to care.
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Buddha’s Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom
by Rick Hanson, Ph.D.
An exploration of the science of how our brain learns, changes, and thinks.
ISBN 978-1-57224-695-9
The Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children
by Shefali Tsabary, Ph.D.
A guide to growing as parents alongside our children.
ISBN 978-1-897238-45-5
The Courage to Suffer: A New Clinical Framework for Life’s Greatest Crises
by Daryl R. Van Tongeren and Sara A. Showalter Van Tongeren
An exploration of resilience through loss and trauma by cultivating meaning.
ISBN 978-1-59947-524-0
The Grieving Brain: The Surprising Science of How We Learn from Love and Loss
by Mary-Frances O’Connor, Ph.D.
An exploration of how our brain changes and is impacted by grief.
ISBN 978-0-06-294624-9
I Will Remember You: What to Do When Someone You Love Dies: A Guidebook Through Grief for Teens
by Laura Dower
Education, validation, and activities to support teens experiencing loss.
ISBN 0-439-13961-9
Intimate Death: How the Dying Teach Us How to Live
by Marie de Hennezel
Stories of people at the end of life, from the perspective of a psychologist who cares for them.
ISBN 0-679-76859-9
It’s OK That You’re Not OK
by Megan Devine
A compassionate look at grief that doesn’t try to rush or fix it.
ISBN 978-1-62203-907-4
The Needs of the Dying: A Guide for Bringing Hope, Comfort, and Love to Life’s Final Chapter
by David Kessler
A compassionate guide for those at the end of life and the people who love them.
ISBN 978-0-06-113759-4
NurtureShock: New Thinking About Children
by Po Bronson and Ashley Merryman
A science-based exploration of parenting topics, including sleep, positive reinforcement, language, and speech.
ISBN 978-0-446-50412-6
Permission to Mourn: A New Way to Do Grief
by Tom Zuba
The author poetically reflects on the deaths of his wife and two children.
ISBN 978-1-60047-565-8
Positively Pooh: Timeless Wisdom from Pooh
by A. A. Milne
Lighthearted life lessons and mindfulness from a favorite bear.
ISBN 978-0-525-47931-4
Raising Human Beings: Creating a Collaborative Partnership with Your Child
by Ross W. Greene, Ph.D.
A guide to empowering parents to become the best version of themselves.
ISBN 978-1-4767-2376-1
Reconciliation: Healing the Inner Child
by Thich Nhat Hanh
An exploration of how mindfulness practice can help heal childhood suffering and trauma.
ISBN 978-1-935209-64-5
Social Justice Parenting: How to Raise Compassionate, Anti-Racist, Justice-Minded Kids in an Unjust World
by Dr. Traci Baxley
A guide for parents to support and uplift the next generation in creating a more inclusive world.
ISBN 978-0-06-308236-6
Talking With Children About Loss: Words, Strategies, and Wisdom to Help Children Cope with Death, Divorce, and Other Difficult Times
by Maria Trozzi
A guide to help parents talk with their children about specific death and non-death losses.
ISBN 0-399-52543-2
Visions, Trips, and Crowded Rooms
by David Kessler
An exploration of three common phenomena experienced by the dying.
ISBN 978-1-4019-2543-7
The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind
by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.
A look at supporting healthy brain development in children.
ISBN 978-0-553-38669-1
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For LGBTQ+ young people under 25. Call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678-678, 24/7.
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For adults in Oakland County. Call 1-888-238-0611 or walk in to the Resource and Crisis Center in Pontiac, 24/7.
